MIND

If you kiss her...

When you love...

“When my absence doesn’t alter your life, then my presence has no meaning in it.”

"You attract people by the qualities you display 
& 
You keep them by the qualities you possess"

I want you :)

I want you to hug me so tightly!!!

happiness --- to be loved :)

“The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather in spite of ourselves.”


— Victor Hugo

We need people...

“We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible.
To have real conversations with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk.”

— Thomas Moore

Experience... for the evolution

“Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. 

How do you know this is the experience you need? 

Because this is the experience you are having at the moment.”

― Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose

Just when you do this...

mmm that's the sound that reverberates through my head when I see you appear online
mmm like the sound a beautiful young woman makes when her lover strokes her hair... or the sound you make when you first slip into a warm bed after a cold walk in the rain

when you sent these words . .that is just the feeling as if you just took my hand in yours and looked deep into my eyes. . .mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

When we meet one day

ok.... hmmmmmmmm i hope that when we meet one day it is warm... sunny... clear blue skies and we stand to hugg one another for a long time... making people around us nervous because of the intensity of our friendship and our huuuuuuuuuuuge hugg! ... we will sit and talk like machine guns our voices getting higher and higher as we get more and more excited... and our eyes will sparkle like spring's gushing crystal clear water out on to a virgin pasture... we will probably dissagree on lots of things but be grown up enough to discuss our differences and accept each others standpoints... and we will probably hold hands too like young friends do.

And as we walked hand in hand our arms would link and you rest your head to my shoulder as we walked talking about those worries... the ones you're quickly forgetting... and our hushed voices would trail back behind us as we stroll in the shades of sunkissed trees.

human love

There is a secret about human love that is commonly overlooked: Receiving it is much more scary and threatening than giving it. How many times in your life have you been unable to let in someone's love or even pushed it away? Much as we proclaim the wish to be truly loved, we are often afraid of that, and so find it difficult to open to love or let it all the way in.

༺♥༻ John Welwood ╰დ╮╭დ╯

източник

Самоувереност

Q:
I am really, REALLY too sensitive. How can I become more thick-skinned, like a "normal" person?

A:
Ego. You are thinskinned because your ego is raw and sore. This is because you are insecure as to your self worth. Until you gain a sense of confidence in who you are you will remain sensitive to the comments and judgements of others. Think about the people you know who are “thick skinned”. What is their predominant trait? Self assurance that’s what.

Въпрос:
Аз наистина, ама НАИСТИНА съм твърде чувствителен. Как да стана по-корав, като `нормален` човек?

Отговор:
Его. Ти си чувствителен, защото твоето аз е открито, достъпно и наранено. Това е така, защото ти си неуверен в своята стойност, в собствената си ценност. Докато не придобиеш усещане за увереност в себе си, ще си останеш обидчив и чувствителен на коментарите и мненията на другите.
Помисли за невъзмутимите хора, които познаваш. Коя е тяхна доминираща черта? Самоувереност, ето коя.

източник - Sam

A Mind

To find the strength

The work with families as well as with mentally handicapped and street youth and before that students at high school and drug addicts
is always about the only one thing – trying to help the people find the strength to become themselves as much as possible and to develop their lives in their full potential.

Martina

Smile it

Smothering...

- Pity, wish I could (see you) but don't fret, looks are only a small part of charm.
The rest is within and you already showed me that.

- Hey... I feel flattered...

- Complimented, please - a compliment carries no cost, no price, no expectation - flattery is for a reason and usually a bad one I'm not flattering you.
I'm complimenting you on your beautiful character.
But blush anyway, I like to make you blush!

-  You make me feel warm about you... I mean nice and cosy.

- I like that I am like that for you - smothering you in my arms is how I'd like you to feel...
But I am just speaking of you as I find you charming, warm and affectionate.
It's a lovely feeling sitting with you.
...
Smothering in this way means wrapping or covering you in a loving way, making you safe.

I Like People With Depth

Love

“Love unlocks doors and opens windows that weren't even there before.”

― Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook